Being a family caregiver can be incredibly fulfilling, but it can also be challenging, stressful, and demanding. It is crucial to take care of yourself as a caregiver, as you cannot provide the best care for your loved one if you neglect your own physical, emotional, and mental needs. Here are five ways to take care of yourself as a family caregiver:

1. Make time for yourself: It is essential to have time for yourself as a caregiver. Set aside time each day to do something that you enjoy, whether it's reading a book, taking a walk, or practicing yoga. Utilize respite care services to take some time off from your caregiving duties, allowing you to recharge and relax.
   
2. Establish a support system: You do not need to go through caregiving alone. Reach out to friends, family, or a support group. These individuals can provide you with emotional support, offer advice and resources, and be a listening ear when you need to vent or express your feelings.
3. Prioritize your health: Caregiving can be physically and emotionally exhausting. Follow a healthy diet, get enough rest, and exercise regularly. Incorporating self-care activities into your daily routine can help reduce stress and improve your overall well-being.
4. Set boundaries: It is vital to set limits on what you can and cannot do as a caregiver. Establish boundaries with your loved one and family members, communicate your needs and limitations, and say no when needed. This can help prevent burnout and allow you to maintain a healthy balance between your caregiving responsibilities and personal life.
5. Stay organized: Keeping track of appointments, medications, and other caregiving responsibilities can be overwhelming. Create a schedule and a to-do list, use a calendar and a reminder app, and delegate tasks to other family members or professionals when possible.

Caregiving can be a rewarding but also challenging experience. Taking care of yourself as a caregiver is essential to provide the best care for your loved one. By making time for yourself, establishing a support system, prioritizing your health, setting boundaries, and staying organized, you can reduce stress and prevent burnout, allowing you to be the best caregiver possible.

Hot weather can pose serious health risks to older adults, especially those with pre-existing medical conditions. Here are five important safety tips that can help keep senior citizens healthy during hot weather:

1. Stay Hydrated: It is essential to stay hydrated during periods of high heat. Older adults should drink plenty of water and avoid beverages that contain caffeine or alcohol, as these can cause dehydration. Your body will lose water through sweating, so it is necessary to replenish it.
2. Dress Appropriately: Wear lightweight, light-colored, and loose-fitting clothing that allows your skin to breathe. You can also wear sunscreen, a hat or an umbrella to protect your skin from the sun.
3. Stay Indoors: Avoid unnecessary outdoor activities during the hottest parts of the day and spend time in an air-conditioned area. If you don't have an air-conditioner at home, visit a shopping center or library that has air conditioning.
4. Keep Your Home Cool: Create a cool environment in your home by using blinds, curtains, or shades to block out sunlight. You can also use a fan or air-conditioner to circulate cool air and reduce indoor heat.
5. Watch for Signs of Heat-Related Illness: Keep an eye out for signs of heat exhaustion and heatstroke, such as dizziness, rapid heartbeat, headache, fainting, or nausea. If you feel unwell, seek medical attention immediately.

Jot weather can have a severe impact on older adults' health, so it is necessary to take appropriate measures to stay safe. Follow the previously mentioned tips to avoid heat-related illnesses and maintain good health during the summer months. Remember to stay hydrated, dress appropriately, avoid outdoor activities during the hottest parts of the day, keep your home cool, and be vigilant for signs of heat-related illness. These steps can help you stay healthy and comfortable during the summer months.

Check the links below for more ways to beat the heat.

With summer here and temperatures rising, it is important to understand the health risks of excessive heat and recognize the signs of heat-related illness. Being hot for too long can be a problem. It can cause several illnesses, all grouped under the name hyperthermia.

These factors can increase your risk of hyperthermia:

• Not drinking enough fluids.
• Reduced sweating caused by medications such as diuretics, sedatives, tranquilizers, and certain heart and blood pressure drugs.
• High blood pressure or other health conditions that require changes in diet. People on salt-restricted diets may be at increased risk; however, salt pills should not be used without first consulting a doctor.
• Use of multiple medications. It is important, however, to continue to take prescribed medication and discuss possible problems with a physician.
• Age-related changes to the skin, such as poor blood circulation and inefficient sweat production.
• Heart, lung, and kidney diseases, as well as any illness that causes general weakness or fever.
• Being substantially overweight or underweight.
• Lack of mobility and access to transportation.
• Living in housing without air conditioning.
• Overdressing, especially in synthetic materials.

Understanding how to respond to hot weather conditions can help lower your risk of hyperthermia. Learn more about hot weather safety for older adults on NIA’s webpage and watch this video about exercising safely in hot weather.

Life blindsided our family in the fall of 2018 when my wife, Pat, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that quickly progressed to stage IV. After a torturous 17-month journey of tests, chemotherapy, ER visits, surgeries, extended hospital stays, and clinical trials, Pat went to her heavenly home. But the chaos pancreatic cancer tried to create could not steal our joy of life, kill our faith or destroy our hope for the future.
My bride of over 35 years blessed us with three terrific children. They, in turn, have blessed us with seven grandchildren, ranging in age from 9 to 1 year old. Close geographic proximity and strong relationships allowed us to help care for our six oldest grandchildren together before cancer took Pat’s life in 2020. It is one of the greatest blessings we have ever had. Our grandchildren truly stole our hearts.
I learned a few key lessons from caring for our grandkids that helped me care for my beautiful spouse. Now, I am absolutely not implying to ever treat an adult like a child. Adults who need assistance in daily life deserve respect, dignity and the ability to maintain some type of independence. They have feelings, thoughts and opinions that must always be considered. However, beginning-of-life and end-of-life care share some characteristics.

Caregivers are often advised to seek help to lessen the caregiving workload. For many individuals, the natural place to turn for such help is family. Family Caregiver Alliance’s Holding a Family Meeting fact sheet provides information on how to approach the subject, advice on creating an agenda, lists key points to consider discussing, and explains potential conflicts that may arise.

Here's a great article to read that gives eight tips on how to provide assistance — and help yourself, if you are experiencing caring for a loved one while retired or are anticipating this scenario in the near future.
This quick read, written by Richard Eisenberg, hits on some of those high points and gives a bit of healthy advice in the process.

When the level of care needed by an ailing or elder person exceeds what can be provided at home, residential housing is often a next step. But how do you sort through the variety of options available and choose the correct level of care?

Family Caregiver Alliance's infographic “5 Types of Residential Care” reveals the five types of outside-the-home care found in most urban and suburban communities, and what to expect from each. Learn which options are best suited for an individual’s wants or needs, including:

• Smaller, more homey environments
• Apartment-like residential communities
• Facilities offering memory and dementia care
• Facilities offering 24-hour nursing supervision

Pain is a signal that something may be wrong in your body. You’ve probably been in pain at one time or another but found that it often goes away as the body heals or with treatment. However, many older people may have ongoing pain from health problems like arthritis, diabetes, shingles, or cancer. 
 
A few things you can do to help manage your pain and feel better are:

• Keep a healthy weight. Being overweight can slow healing and make some pain worse. A healthy weight might help with pain in the knees, back, hips, or feet.
  
•  Be physically active. Pain might make you inactive, which can lead to more pain and loss of function. Activity can help. 
  
• Get enough sleep. It can reduce pain sensitivity, help healing, and improve your mood.
  

 
The National Institute for Aging has released an informative booklet discussing different aspects of pain experienced by older adults.  To view the booklet, click the button below.

If you have older family members or loved ones, you may worry about their health as they age. Aging increases the risk of chronic diseases such as heart disease, type 2 diabetes, arthritis, cancer, and dementia. The good news is that adopting and maintaining a few key behaviors can help older adults live longer, healthier lives. As a family member, it’s important to encourage healthy lifestyle behaviors in your loved ones — it’s never too late to start!
 
For tips on healthy aging, click the button below.

Deciding to become physically active can be one of the best things you can do for your health. Exercise and physical activity are not only great for your mental and physical health, but they can help keep you independent as you age.  
 
To learn more, click the button below.

Answering the question “what should I eat?” doesn’t need to leave you feeling baffled and frustrated. In fact, when you have the right information and motivation, you can feel good about making healthy choices. Simple adjustments can go a long way toward building a healthier eating pattern.
 
Click the button below for tips to plan healthy and delicious meals.

Many factors may influence your risk of dementia, including genes, environment, and lifestyle. You can’t change some factors, but, as with many diseases, there may be steps you can take to help lower your risk. Learn more about how leading a healthy lifestyle is important for your health.
 
To learn more, click the button below.

If you do not see an aging friend or relative often, changes in his or her health may seem dramatic. In contrast, the primary caregiver might not notice such changes or realize that more help, medical treatment, or supervision is needed. Or, the primary caregiver might not want to accept the fact that the health of his or her spouse or parent is failing. 
 
As a caregiver, you can provide support by helping an aging friend or relative get the care they need.
 
To learn more, click the button below.

The University of Washington Dementia Palliative Education Network and the WA State Dementia Action Collaborative have created a new free toolkit for family/friend care partners of people living with dementia. 
 
The goal of this toolkit is to: 

• Explain how to form a working partnership with healthcare providers
• Show hot to organize, streamline tasks, and communicate about the care needs of the person living with dementia 
• Reduce chances of avoidable care transitions 

 
The toolkit includes:

• Easy-to-navigate narrated presentation
• Video scenario demonstrations 
• Care, medication, and appointment log sheets 

 
For more information about the toolkit, click here. To view the flyer, click the button below.

If you don’t see an aging parent or friend often, changes in their memory and function may seem dramatic. In contrast, a primary caregiver like a spouse might not notice such changes or realize that more help, medical treatment, or supervision is needed. Talk with your loved one and the primary caregiver about your concerns. Consider these conversation tips:

• Avoid sounding critical. Instead, mention your particular worry, and explain why you are asking. For example, “It looks like you don’t have much food in the house — are you having trouble getting to the store?”
• Discuss what you think could be done. Offer practical suggestions and give specific examples of what you can do. For example, “Would it be helpful if I schedule an appointment with the doctor to talk about changes in Dad’s memory?” or “Would you like me to arrange to have groceries delivered on a regular basis?”

Click the button below to find more conversation tips for discussing changes in memory and function from the National Institute on Aging.

Three in four adults more than 65 years of age have two or more chronic conditions that can limit day-to-day functioning. If an older adult is not able to grocery shop or cook meals, these tasks fall on the caregiver. In 2015, 76% of caregivers helped their loved one with grocery shopping and 61% helped with cooking meals. As a result, the caregiver’s dietary habits will impact their loved one’s diet. In other words, if the caregiver eats poorly (non-nutritious foods), so will their loved one, typically resulting in poorer health.
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Shadow comforts and quick fixes deplete and exhaust.
Check out these ten ways to solve the self-care conundrum.

"Delirium is a sudden change in your alertness and thinking. People with delirium typically become confused and have trouble paying attention."

Healthline's Chitra Badii continues, "Delirium is an abrupt change to your mental state. It makes it difficult to think, remember, focus, and more. Some people with delirium become drowsy and quiet, while others can become agitated."

Badii expands her article to cover:

• Types
  
• Causes
• Risk factors
• Symptoms
• Diagnosis
• Treatment
• Outlook

Build drinking water into your routine.

• Flavor water with lemon, lime, melon, or herbs to create a special drink.
  
• Make hot or iced tea as an alternative to water.
  
• In the United States, tap water is safe and cheap!
• Carry around a reusable water bottle with you all day.
• Offer water to your child throughout the day.
• Make water your beverage of choice between meals.